When my wife kicked me out of the house and called the cops on me for no reason i sayed calm and moved out with a smile without any retaliation. 6 months later she begged me to come back and told me i was the best man she ever had blablabla. Now she respects me and let me play with my costumes like i want.
Best thing is to smile and let her get what she wants (unless she is hurting your son).