Dozer105 Posted November 21, 2012 Share Posted November 21, 2012 Friends, Family Members Anyone who can help: This past weekend has been one @#$% of an emotional roller coaster for me for some that are close know that i have been in an ages long custody battle over my Son Gabriel and have been beaten down to the core of my sanity by the Great State of North Carolina for those that do not know here is it what is going on: In 2008 I deployed to Iraq in the midst of divorce which was finalized for myself winning summary of judgement due to the fact that my ex wife would not contest to finalizing cause she wanted to continue to ream me of benefits. After wards while still deployed my son's grand parents informed me that she had remarried and that Gabriel was being neglected and abused sexually by his new step dad i=which broke my heart and after I informed my chain of command the situation they were completely non-supportive which lead to myself having a mental breakdown which resulted with myself being medically evacuated out of Iraq only to return to the states and have the grand parents try and steal custody of my son by using my medical condition against me and saying that my ex wife's husband was raping my son. Court went on and on all the way up until I was re-stationed to Korea in October 2009 in which the court found their claims unfounded and gave custody to my ex wife. Meanwhile I am serving in Korea til 2011 and barley no matter how I much I tried to make contact with my Son was barely allowed to speak on the phone for as many as 20 minutes if i was lucky , and received next to nothing for pictures of him as he was growing all well paying child support to my ex wife who was supposed to take care of him. Anyway to try and keep this as brief as possible much to my speculations but at the time and still awaiting hard evidence and proof I believed that my ex was wasting Gabriels support on drugs.(She has checked into a Hospital and she looks physically spent as if she has been on Drugs lost rapids amount of weight and is mentally incoherent). As of Saturday 18 November things are starting to look brighter as my ex wife called me in a very incoherent fashion and told me that she had been in contact with a detective that said the Rape Kit that was given to Gabriel came back that substantiates Gabriels Grand father has been the culprit the whole time however she never informed myself of any of this information and supposedly that my son was assaulted in 2010 (however no evidence has been presented at this time) she wanted to call military one source to try and set up counseling for my son and started a 3 way call session as I am the Soldier in the equation and they would only deal with me directly. During the phone call she was completely incoherent and could not answer simple questions like what her own date of birth was and kept running around in circles on any question she was asked and then she broke the news about the Grand Father being the culprit. The agent at military one source said that this will have to be reported to Child Protective Services and Family Advocacy Program which they did in fact call. Now as of 20 November 2012 Child Protective Services removed my son Gabriel and placed him into my custody as my ex wife was found to be Negligent in her custodial duties as a parent. She is not well mentally and I told her she needs help. The Dept of Social Services released Gabriel to me and I was allowed to get clothes and some toys out of his house and bring him home with me. Now comes the Hardest thing I have ever had to do in my entire life as I am a very independent person but I am extremely desperate to ensure the safety of my child and give him a future that he deserves. I have never begged or pleaded in anyway shape or form but I need help. If anyone can find it in their heart to donate some money to this cause so that i may obtain full custody of my Son I could really use the help I have a PayPal account and the address is demonspeed9@yahoo.com I need to raise about $1500 to retain a lawyer and strike while the iron is hot so Please if anyone can please donate so I can secure 9 years old Gabriel's future. I will stop paying any and all bills and become homeless before i let my ex have my Son so once again any help is appreciated and God bless who ever does Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iconoclasta_88 Posted November 21, 2012 Share Posted November 21, 2012 As a parent, I know I would do just about anything for my daughter. So I understand what might be going through your mind. Stay strong for your boy bro. He needs you, and in more than one sense, you will need him, to go through this difficult times and process. I will send you something to help you out later today. Hope it helps. All for the best for your son. Saludos. Juan. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dozer105 Posted November 21, 2012 Author Share Posted November 21, 2012 thank you my friend I appreciate any help I can. I think for the first time in 6 years I have a sealed deal legally this time round. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iconoclasta_88 Posted November 21, 2012 Share Posted November 21, 2012 PP sent! Hope it helps. Saludos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dozer105 Posted November 21, 2012 Author Share Posted November 21, 2012 Thank you Juan I really appreciate this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RETNUHHA Posted November 21, 2012 Share Posted November 21, 2012 WOW!!! donation made brotha, good luck and god bless Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dozer105 Posted November 21, 2012 Author Share Posted November 21, 2012 thank you so much Rob words can not describe my gratitude right now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RETNUHHA Posted November 21, 2012 Share Posted November 21, 2012 Your welcome bro, glad to help Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarthChridan Posted November 21, 2012 Share Posted November 21, 2012 OMG...what an incredible horrible story.... I've send a few bugs to your acc.....hope it helps dude. And hopefully you can help your son.....what a fu...ck....ing world...... I wish you and your son all the best, mate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dozer105 Posted November 21, 2012 Author Share Posted November 21, 2012 Dan thanks for your kindness i really appreciate the help Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarthChridan Posted November 22, 2012 Share Posted November 22, 2012 Your welcome, David. I hope it turns everything to the good.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dozer105 Posted November 23, 2012 Author Share Posted November 23, 2012 Me too I keep praying and the Lord opened this window of Opportunity for me to gain custody so I am jumping on it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dozer105 Posted November 27, 2012 Author Share Posted November 27, 2012 Update: I have an appointment tomorrow afternoon with an attorney to set up protection order and fight for custody Thanks again to those who helped out it really means alot to Myself and my Son and words cannot describe my gratitude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dozer105 Posted November 27, 2012 Author Share Posted November 27, 2012 and my Son Starts School tomorrow in my town as well Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DirtyBoy Posted November 27, 2012 Share Posted November 27, 2012 Good luck brother Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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